If you’ve been learning French for any time, you’ve probably noticed that spoken French isn’t just written French spoken out loud. But school French isn’t really used in everyday conversations. For example, we never use le passé simple. Let me explain, with examples of what to use instead.
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Index:
1 – Don’t use “le passé simple”
2 – Your turn now: Practice!
3 – Final Challenge
1 – Don’t use “le passé simple”
Today, I want to focus on practice to help you really get the hang of things. But let me explain a few things first so we’re all on the same page.
Le passé simple is a grammatical tense for an action that happened in the past. It’s the tense for narration and novels, like
- Soudain, elle chanta. = Suddenly, she sang.
- Vous écrivîtes. = You wrote.
- Nous partîmes. = We left.
- Je fus. = I’ve been, I was.
Yes, it’s called simple past, but it sounds complicated and weird. It’s part of why we don’t use that tense in spoken French. You’ll only hear it in formal narration, old settings or theater plays.
So you will never need to use it. Le passé simple is too formal for emails, letters, Internet writings, and everyday spoken French like real conversations.
So anyway, what do we use in everyday life instead of le passé simple? Well, we use le passé composé of course! You probably heard about that tense when learning French in school.
It’s called “composé” because it’s made of two parts: “avoir” (= to have) in the present tense – or sometimes “être” (= to be) for some verbs. And then le participe passé (= the past participle). For instance,
Elle a chanté. = She sang.
It’s built like the present perfect in English: “She has sung.” Except it simply means “she sang.”
OK, now I can hear you say: “Wait a minute, “le passé composé” looks more complicated! Is it more regular than le passé simple, at least??”
And the answer is: “…well, barely.”
On the one hand, you have to learn the past participles of the verbs, like chanté = sung, mangé = eaten, or parti = left, and the past participle of partir = to leave. Some of them can be quite irregular, and there are some special rules on top of it.
On the other hand, you probably already know the conjugation of avoir and être in the present:
> Le passé composé is a compound past tense in French, and it is commonly used to express completed actions or the actions that took place in a precise moment in the past, whose duration we know: we know when the action started, ended or for how long it lasted.
1. Using “Avoir” as the Helping Verb:
- Most verbs use “avoir” as the helping verb in the passé composé.
- The past participle is usually formed by adding “-é” for -er verbs, “-i” for -ir verbs, and “-u” for -re verbs, but there are a lot of irregular past participles.
- Agreement in gender and number is not required when “avoir” is the helping verb, but only in specific cases.
- J’ai mangé. = I ate.
- Tu as fini = You finished.
- Il a vendu = He sold.
- Nous avons parlé = We talked.
- Vous avez écrit = You wrote.
- Elles ont choisi = They chose.
2. Using “Être” as the Helping Verb:
- Certain verbs, often related to motion or a change of state, use “être” as the helping verb.
- The past participle agrees in gender and number with the subject when “être” is used.
- Je suis arrivé = I arrived. (a man)
- Tu es tombé(e) = You fell. (a man or a woman with the additional “e”)
- Il est parti = He left.
- Nous sommes nés/nées = We were born.
- Vous êtes monté(e)s = You went up. (the additional “e” for a group of women)
- Elles sont venues = They came.
> L’imparfait (imperfect) is another past tense in French, and it is used to describe ongoing, habitual, or repeated actions in the past. Unlike the passé composé, which focuses on completed actions, the imparfait provides a continuous or background description of past events. Here are the basic rules for forming and using the imparfait:
- For regular “-er”, “-ir”, and “-re” verbs, the imparfait is formed by removing the “-ons” ending from the present tense “nous” form and adding the imparfait endings: “-ais”, “-ais”, “-ait”, “-ions”, “-iez” and “-aient”.
- For irregular verbs, the conjugation must be memorized.
- Je parlais = I was speaking
- Tu habitais = You were living
- Il allait = He was going
- Nous dormions = We were sleeping
- Vous regardiez = You were watching
- Elles jouaient = They were playing
Remember that while the passé composé and imparfait are past tenses, they serve different purposes. The passé composé is used for specific, completed actions, while the imparfait is used for ongoing or habitual actions and to set the scene in the past. These two tenses are often used in a narrative to view past events comprehensively.
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- L’imparfait: When and how to use it in everyday French
- French Conjugation: 6 Verbs That Use Both “Avoir” And “Être”
2 – Your turn now: Practice!
So, let’s have some fun with French grammar. You can practice with me right now at home while watching this video behind your screen.
Let’s get used to hearing some “passé simple” so you can understand what’s happening when they use it in formal French. But let’s also practice le passé composé together – so you can become more confident in the everyday French we speak in real conversations.
1/6 Elle mangea.
It’s in le passé simple. You might wonder why there’s a silent “e” in there, and that’s a good question. It’s there to remind you that it’s a soft “g” sound, as in “giraffe”, and not a hard “g” as in “gift.”
And what do you think it means?
Yes, it simply means, “She ate”! As in “Elle mangea du fromage.” = She ate some cheese.
But we would never say it this way in everyday spoken French. How would you say that in le passé composé? We would use “Elle”, of course. Then “avoir” in the present, then the past participle for “manger.” We mix that, and we get…
Elle a mangé. = She ate.
“Elle” for “she”, “a” for “avoir” in the present, and “mangé” for the past participle.
2/6 Je fus timide.
Je fus timide. = I’ve been shy, or I used to be shy.
How would you say that in everyday spoken French?
You might already have the answer. Or do you need a refresher on past participles? The one for “être” is “été.” Yes, it’s like l’été, summer! And our sentence finally makes:
J’ai (= Je + “ai”, avoir) été (past participle) timide.
J’ai été timide. ! = I’ve been shy, I used to be shy.
You can also add any other adjective, from superbe = incredible to horrible = terrible.
3/6 How would you write in passé simple the sentence “You wrote a letter.”?
Here, we’ll use the regular verb écrire = to write. What do you think the passé simple conjugation looks like for “tu”? It’s:
– Tu écrivis une lettre. = You wrote a letter.
How would you say that in the passé composé? It’s pretty straightforward. The past participle for écrire is simply écrit, written. So it makes…
– Tu as écrit une lettre. = You wrote a letter.
You can pause the video and try the same exercise with the verb rédiger = to edit and write instead of écrire. It’s just like manger!
Here are the answers:
– Tu rédigeas une lettre.
– Tu as rédigé une lettre.
4/6 What do you think is the conjugation of that sentence, “Nous partons”, in le passé simple? It is…
Nous partîmes. = We left.
How would we say that in le passé composé, though? Do you remember the past participle of partir? We’ve seen it together earlier: it’s parti.
But there’s one more thing here: this verb, partir, uses “être” for le passé composé. So what do you think it looks like with “nous”? It is…
Nous sommes partis.
It’s become Nous sommes, the present conjugation for “we are.” More importantly, you can notice that “partis” has a silent “s” here; it’s in the plural. That’s the special rule of passé composé: for the few verbs that use “être” instead of “avoir”, the past participle agrees with the subject.
By the way, in real, everyday spoken French, we would not use “Nous” at all. Instead, we’d say: On est partis. = We left with the informal pronoun for “we”.
The agreement of the past participle:
- “On est parti.” is allowed because “on” is third-person singular;
- “On est partis.” is allowed because it’s used as the plural “we” with other people.
Now, we’ll see the sentences that all mean the same thing, but from the most to the less formal ones:
- Nous nous trompâmes. (le passé simple)
- Nous nous sommes trompés. (le passé composé, with the “nous” pronoun)
- On s’est trompés. (le passé composé, with “on” pronoun instead of “nous”)
- On s’est gourés / plantés. (le passé composé with “on” pronoun and the slang verbs “se planter”, “se gourer”)
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Le truc en plus:
Le parti = the (political) party, the side of a debate.
Une fête = a party.
5/6 Le passé simple is Vous allâtes au marché. = You went to the market. with the verb aller = to go.
The passé simple with “Nous” and “vous” always sounds quite weird to a French person. We rarely find sentences like “Nous partîmes” or “vous allâtes.” We primarily use passé simple for narration in novels, mainly in the third person, like “He” or “They.” But the characters themselves don’t use it often!
So how would you say that, “vous allâtes au marché,” in everyday passé composé instead? It uses “être”, again…It’s:
Vous êtes allés au marché ! = You went to the market.
Or if only women are in the group, we would add a silent “e” to make the past participle feminine: Vous êtes allées au marché!
Allé agrees with the subject and becomes plural or feminine or masculine because with “aller”, we use “être” instead of “avoir”! And the same thing happens with “elles”, the feminine “‘they”, with the verb aller = to go.
Elles allèrent au marché. = They went to the market, they visited the market.
How would you say that in le passé composé ? We use “être”, so it makes… Elles sont allées au marché.
We simply use “être” with the plural “They”, and the past participle “allé” becomes allées to become plural and feminine.
6/6 Let’s try our hand at one last sentence: Ils voulurent déménager. = They then wanted to move, to live somewhere else.
How would you say that in le passé composé ? “Vouloir” (= to want) uses “avoir” for its passé composé, and becomes voulu in the past participle. So, it’s…
Ils ont voulu déménager. = They wanted to move!
3 - Final Challenge
How would you say these sentences in passé composé? Don’t look at the answers right below, until you completed your challenge!
As we’ve seen, le passé simple is an important part of formal, written French. But it’s not the language of everyday spoken French. So you can learn about le passé simple in school and how to read French books or plays, and it’s great. But you can also forget about it, skip the conjugation tables, and talk directly to French people to have real conversations! The essential idea behind all this is that written French and informal everyday spoken French can sometimes be seen as two different languages altogether.
Answers for the Final Challenge:
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Géraldine
You translate ” j’ai été timide” as I’ve been shy, I used to be shy. I would translate this as “I was shy”. And for ” I used to be shy”, wouldn’t this be the Imparfait, “j’étais timide”, to describe an ongoing past situation/ background information?
Vicki Anderson
(30 day challenge student)
Bonjour ! The video indicates “Ils ont voulu changer”. Should voulu be “voulus” in the case that the phrase is plural in subject?
Bonjour @Douglas M Basko,
That will not be necessary as the auxiliary is “avoir” and in this instance, there is no agreement with the subject.
Merci,
Fabien
Comme une Française Team